Thursday, March 03, 2005

bah, how can it be so fragile?

I wanna thank all my friends for celebrating my birthday. Thank you thank you. Right, there are many pics but I chose this because all of us are in the pic. Thank you for inscribing our group name on the Tiramisu.

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Joyous birthday party I had. Thank you. This was then 10pm of March, 2nd.

BUT TODAY IS MARCH, 3RD.

UGLY. HAHAHAHA.(Stupid.)

I can't believe university kids can be so puerile at the age when they can do anything with their lives. It shows how lousy our education system is when it comes to character building albeit it did produce many decent offspring.

It cannot be denied that interactions between earthly beings will often bring forth arguments, disputes and bitch-slappings...but I reckon that is the essence of being human - having a thought of our own and refuting doctrines, which we deem nonsensical.

But can these asymmetries so often be the crumbling factor for the collapse of friendships? Are relationships between people so fragile that even sand castles can hold themselves better?

Friends are people that we chose to befriend with at dawn; and they chose us. Thus the spawn of a beautiful friendship and now comes with birds chirping, flowers blossoming and kids laughing! But look now, with all sort of crumpled face and double-edged words rocketing around, the birds might have all died of the words, flowers withered because the ground is so sour, and kids are killing one another with Swiss knives.

I believe that human should be more tolerant. Since the fragile human relationships are so often compromised over seriously stupid dumb-fuck issues, which even an elementary kid could laugh her head off if only she understands. It is not so much about who is in the right/wrong, it is a matter of balancing the equation. If it weights more over a side, then that side should have more substance. So just accept this simple theory and get over with it. Why push it to the brink of ruination?

If both sides are so reluctant to give in - the best solution is prolly to split up. People who are arrogant are always lonely craps. For these people do not have the skills to balance the equation and thus they should be left alone on the other side of the equation. Let them die in loneliness for being so ignorant in improving their mathematical skills.

Btw, I am not having problems with my friends. Heard this from a very close friend of mine and just felt concern for her. So please, don't be a rigid bastard. Instead, be a flexible bastard. It is good for you and the rest of mankind.(even credit cards now offer flexi-payments. what more you, bastard?)

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